Thought I would do a little update on this ....
I had initially tried this B2B/VSR Combo using an Ablemail B2B and the way I tried it involved some additional hi-power relays and some extra heavy-duty cabling, so it worked but was really not ideal.
The Victron has a remote control input for both L and H (low voltage control and high voltage control - you chose how you control it) and that was ideal for this B2B - VSR Combo right out the box
But I decided to revist the Ablemail B2B as I was sure this should be possible in a much easier way - and it was!
You can reprogramme the Ablemail B2B unit (well, the supplier can, the end user cannot usually) to use the Voltage sensing input essentially as a remote control feature.
It can only be controlled by a high voltage signal (unlike the Victron), but the control signal for the VSR must be low voltage, so a slight issue. But this can be overcome by just using a simple low-current relay costing a couple of quid and simple wiring, and not involving any current-carrying cable, so now I can use the Ablemail charger (which I believe is actually better (it has a higher output for sure) than the Victron
Orion-tr Smart B2B) in a dual B2B-VSR setup by a tweak to the wiring which cost under £2 and took a couple of minutes to fit