Can you see the glowplug relay? Does it click on then back off a few seconds later? If yes then try this...
Can you fit an illuminated switch on your dash taking live from the
battery then onto the switching side of the relays (having removed the old wiring)
Can you then also take a high amperage cable (6mm+ ?) Direct from your good
battery positive to the relay to then power the glow plugs
This effectively replaces your existing glow plug supply circuitry and gives them a good strong supply.
This assuming the plugs are OK and there are no earthing problems.
If you still don't get 12v out of the relay then it must be the culprit.(?)
Good luck
K