On the other hand happy wives don't stray, they may get caught up and do something they might not normally do if conned by some Ahole who takes advantage, it happens, you never know what's really going on in someone else's life even if they tell you, you only know what they tell you, a mate of mines wife left him for someone, and he was full of grief and couldn't understand it, turns out he had two others on the go and she found out.