It's a funny old world, but we live in the UK where Earth, Live and Neutral are rigidly defined and are allocated to specific pins on our unique plugs.
In Europe, they have reversible plugs in most of the western European countries, so Live and Neutral can be either way round, purely by the way you plug your EHU cable in.
Inside your motorhome, it matters not which way things come in as long as you have an isolating 2-pole RCD fitted. Nothing will matter UNLESS someone has done a silly and put Neutral and Earth together at the box, in which case things could get nasty very quickly.
I personally don't earth every single bit of metal in the vehicle, I only take power to proper 3-pin earthed sockets and appliances that take a proper earth connection and that are fed from the AC box.
There should be no way that any live/neutral reversal should endanger anyone, not least children who should not have access to anything with live connections in the first place.
Peter