And that's the whole point of my OP. I did read RTFM very thoroughly but the sequence of connections is just not mentioned.
Whatever may be available online, there should be no presumption of prior knowledge in the manual concerning critical factors and to assume otherwise is just disingenuous.
Anyway, time to move on, I think. My
Victron bits arrive today and I'm looking forward to having a great charging and monitoring system. Many thanks to
@wildebus and others for all the tips.