maureenandtom
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By the way, I've found something I can strongly disagree with - "because we all like rules". But you only said that as a wind-up, didn't you? Happy travels.
Yeah, ok, you got me. Just a little bit of a wind-up. But true enough nevertheless.
We like rules; we are disturbed by a lack of order. We so love our rules that we become disturbed if others defy them never mind defying them ourselves.
Andy, just now, says “Of course they will need to be regulated.” He didn't really need to say it because that's the British way. We want to be regimented, organised. If we don't have rules then we will invent them and woe betide anybody who disobeys the rules even if they're our own unwritten. invented rules.
A guy parks his van within the rules. He stays a little too long for us and we are disturbed by it. We say, “You're staying too long.” He says, “Well, I'm within the rules, what's the problem?” So we invent a rule that he should have known about all along. Don't stay too long. But we don't tell him how long is too long. He should know these things. We tell him, “You have to obey the rules even if they aren't written down and nobody knows what they are because we've just made them up.”
You see a rule that's just made up by somebody in a local authority and you think it's just a made up rule so you defy it. Well, you shouldn't. We have to obey even made up rules. We love our rules.
I sometimes wonder why but not for too long because I've been told time and again that I'll spoil things for the rest of us if I think too long about such things.