I tried both and eventually cancelled my C&CC membership. I found the CC far better and to a standard that's unequalled anywhere I've been. The sites are always immaculate, with superb facilities but none of the things that make many commercial sites unpleasant, such as clubs and bars etc.
I am totally at a loss as to these claims that the CC is snobbish or 'up itself' whatever that means. In over thirty years of using their sites I have never encountered an unpleasant warden or one that was less than helpful. I have been pleased to see that motor-homes are now a big part of the CC with many wardens using them and if one goes on a CC site off season, there are more motor-homes than caravans.
The CC's additional facilities are brilliant: Its massive CL network, its Europe sites books, which even those who moan about the CC always seem to use and I have found its
insurance services to be fine. This year it got me the best deal on my motorhome and I now insure it with them.
I think that the best thing about both the clubs, is that they are run by the members. They may have executives, but these are told what policies to adopt by committees of members and they are both mutuals with no shareholders and all profits being ploughed back into more sites and better facilities.
I'm not a rabid wild camper. I love wild camping when circumstances permit but I will not go on a car park or hide behind the gasworks just to avoid paying for a site. If there is nowhere nice and quiet to wild camp I will use the CC sites or even better, the brilliant CL network.
Finally, if wardens are approached in a friendly manner the will also react in the same vein. They have a difficult job with long hours and like anyone else if they're talked to by someone who obviously has a grudge against the club, they'll react like any normal person would. I've been appalled sometimes by the attitudes of both caravanners and motor-homers who adopt an 'I know my rights' attitude and talk to wardens like they're a lower form of life.
Finally, my last CL cost £6 for a superb spot by a canal. There were two of us on a huge field miles from anywhere and we had water and chemical WC emptying facilities. It's worth being in the clubs just for these!